How long is too long to wait for a partner to change?
👉🏿 Preamble – The Older Man
To be honest I’m speaking of being in the dating stages or starting over. For a man in my age group.
That’s why I entitled the post George Clooney.
👋🏾 Introduction –
Who you talking to?
At this point I’m only getting picker and picker about who and how I want my partner to be.
I’m not one of them people where looks are everything but I don’t want a booger wolf either. 🤣😶
I have dated some women that wasn’t the greatest looking but they treated me well.
That’s the most important thing to me.
These relationships did not work out, but it wasn’t because of how she looked.
💡 The TMI – Whats your name?
Being able to communicate with my partner about anything is top on my list of traits.
Having a partner to share the ride with me until we are death dued part.
🤔 Now that I’m am older and my penis has less control over my brain,😁
I realize the deal breaker with me is emotional intelligence.
Woman, meaning my black women, have poor emotional intelligence.
Most of them think they can say whatever they want to people, but lord forbid you say something to hurt their feelings.
(Which some swear they didn’t have.)
It’s hell to tell the captain. 🫡🫡🙂↕️
I have had the sweetest woman spew some of the most hateful things I have ever been told, because she didn’t get the reaction from me she was used to.
I will not claim to be innocent in these interactions because if I’m being truthful it’s only so long of being verbally bashed before a speak back.
I save the B word for special occasions if my female readers are wondering.
My mother always told me, “Son, call it how you see it. If she actin like bitch….”
🤔🙂↕️🙂↕️
Okay, so what’s the Point? 🤨
I have always been kinda of confused when I comes to how long is enough to wait for change.
We all know that person waiting on their spouse or partner to change, everyone sees this person is not going to change but them.
Or the other hand that person who cuts people off for the least little thing they do that they do not like.
If I’m honest I have been both myself.
I understand that all people are different and every situation is not the same.
Of course, I have clear-cut deal breakers: like sinister behavior or you lye in the beginning stages.
But still.
What’s the balance?
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