Dear John,

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Breaking up with someone is a task that hits me hard.

I know people who say once the cut ties with someone, the break up is complete.

They continue on with life as if a piece of themselves were not missing.😕

They pick a new person and ghost their ex.😶

In honesty again I am not one of these people. 🤔

Even though I have been told many times that: “I can’t tell whether you care about me or not.”🤔

When I’m am sharing my life with someone that is exactly what I do; I share my life with them.

I would/will everything in my power to keep you safe, loved, and healthy.

I don’t lie or withhold information from my partner.

It is us against the world.

I feel that to do so would defeat the purpose of having a partner.

And I ask the same of my partner in return.

Maybe it I’d just the stage of life that I am in right now.

Each break up over the years slightly or majorly changes me.

Each time, I rebuilt with a piece missing. But it’s not missing. It’s just not useful anymore. 😕

It applies to a person and circumstances that are no longer priority.

The habits I formed must be broken, yet the experiences have changed me forever.

Starting over carries a whole different weight and feelings. Especially with the wisdom of experience.

Have you ever experienced a touch break up before? If so,how did you recover from the breakup?

My name is Kinfolk Wellin’, and I thank you for your time and support.

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