Ladies, would marry a man like me?
Preamble – For the Ladies.
This post was intended for my female blog community.
I am not aposed to males answering the question, I stand firm in my heterosexuality.
That out the way…
LEGGO!
Introduction – Old Skool n 50/50
As a man well into adulthood, I understand the power and benefits of marriage.
It provides a partner in life to support and strengthen your entire life.
(Of that’s coarse if you choose the correct spouse for you.)
I believe that are some tasks I. The relationship is gender basis.
That’s the old school teaching that I was raised on.
However, on all other aspects of life, there should be a 50/50 partnership.
This keep one person from getting burned out or feeling like their the only one contributing to the relationship.
The TMI – Marry you for what?
As a young man, I didn’t think I would ever want to have a wife.
“What for?” I would ask my girlfriends when they asked how I felt about marriage.
“Wake up to the same woman every day? Her treating like she your mother?
No new 😻? Naw, I’m good.” I would think to myself.
It seemed like a bad contract where the woman received all of the benefits.
So there was no way you could talk me into signing with your label. 😁
I have been proposed to by a woman before in my thirties.
She felt as if: “Why should the man be the only one who gets to propose.”
I’m am not going to touch that subject with a ten foot pole.
🤔💡 In case you’re wondering, no, I didn’t accept.
💡 It was one of the most awkward moments of my life, and I have done some pretty dumb 🤬. 💯
Okay, so what’s the Point? 🤨
With all that being said.
So what do you think ladies, can you marry a man like me.
I have been single for almost ten years now.
I have had relationships that didn’t last as long, and the physical connection, so I know how to spot a good woman.
The question is, is it too late?
So, what cha thinkin’?
Do you think men and women still want to get married?
Did/do you see marriage as a bad contract like I did?
Could you marry a man like me knowing my past?
In Conclusion – The Motto:
My name is Kinfolk Wellin’, and I thank you for your time.
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