My little brother was killed in November last year.
This death, of course, sent shockwaves through our already small family. When a family member dies, it triggers all types of feelings in the people closest to us.
People get worried and start to say things like:
“We should keep in better contact because you never know.”
“I will call you daily; I need to make sure I know you’re alive.”
These statements are just the feelings of mortality in ourselves.
We know we won’t keep to these words. But it makes us feel good when we need it the most.
These words may sound cold to some, but they are true to others. Why?
Because once these same people find a “new normal,” it’s back to business as usual.
Calls come less frequently, and texts take longer to get a response, if at all.
This time in life is when the person has found their groove again, and if contacting you wasn’t a part of their routine before the family member’s death, it’s back to business.
Call it what you would like, but it’s just the truth.
As time passes, I carry my brother’s memories, and he is still alive.
I freestyle like he will still jump in after the beat changes.
I still make songs like he gives me feedback, so he is my co-producer.
I am doing what I told my brother I wanted him to do when “My Time” came:
And when I die, never studder your feet, get back to work, remember me David Caredean.
Kinfolk Wellin’
My name is Kinfolk Wellin’, and I thank you for your time.
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Peace.
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