What will your life be like in three years?
I see myself sitting at a table for two in my dining room, enjoying a home-cooked meal with the love of my life.
A lot of my life I spent time trying to escape a “normal life.” Marriage, mortgage, and inlaws. No, that was a hard no.
It wasn’t until I was older that I understood that a man’s life is what he believes it to be.
Some people may say “Of course, I could have told you that.”
And you wouldn’t have been any different the numerous people or informational sources that I heard in my youth.
It doesn’t matter how much you heard a jewel until it “clicks” or is that ” I get it now” moment.
The wisdom just sets on the shelf of your mind collecting dust. Constantly reminding you that if you knew how to approach or apply the information it would change your life.
To envision a goal or completed task is one of the gems offered by all motivational speakers I have ever come across. However, until it makes sense to you or is an important belief held with passion; this advice is worthless.
What’s the point I’m trying to make?
The way a goal manifests depends on more than just visualization and a clear goal, it has to also match with someone else’s vision in some way.
I have never been interested in changing my life in small ways. “Dream big” I was always told as a child. To have a piece of such a huge culture as hip-hop is evidence of this fact.
So as I think about sharing this dinner with the most beautiful intelligent woman I have had the pleasure of sharing my life with, it still must match and have a counterpart in this realm.
There are billions of women in the world (give or take😁) but there are too many factors to list to match the vision of marriage I have in mind. When you factor in all the other details the numbers get even smaller.
So I can change myself for the betterment of self-mastery, as all do whether conscious or not. For evolution or a demoted mental state. This makes the point even clearer to me that it is possibly impossible to exactly know what you want.
I end my rambling on with this, I have an outline of what I want to be in my life in three years, but I am open to any new experiences that may bring me closer to my vision. I had a ridget veiws or an exact way that I wanted things to happen. This closed ways for my vision to manifest. So I now freely allow the possibility find me, wherever it may be found
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